Ground Rules

Set the rules before the fun.

Ground Rules is a consent and boundaries planner for adults. Before a group gets together, everyone sets their boundaries and answers a few private yes/no questions. The group then sees its ground rules: what's OK, what to talk about first, and what's off limits. Never who said what.

How it works

• Your boundaries, once. Say what you're open to and what's off limits. They apply to every plan.
• Connect by invite. Share a one-time code with people you know, or opt in to be found nearby.
• Plan together. Create an event, invite your connections, and everyone answers privately.
• See the ground rules. When everyone has answered, the group sees the result. Anything not answered counts as off limits, and anyone can change their mind later.

Private by design

• Your answers are visible only to you. Results show the group's rules, never who answered what.
• Photos are resized on your phone and stripped of location data before upload, and only your connections see them.
• No ads, no tracking, and we never sell your data.
• Delete your account from the app at any time, and everything goes with it.

Ground Rules is in private testing on Android. It's for adults (18+) only.